If you find yourself in love with a person who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

Don't say "yes" if you want to say "no". Don't say "maybe" if you want to say "never". You can't hurt people with your decisions. We always want to please, but at the end we are hurting ourselves; it took me a lot of time to learn how to say "no",…